Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Positive Talk


Tonight, I just finished reading the book that a dear friend of mine gave me entitled, “Enjoy God’s Best For Your Life.”

One chapter again struck my attention,  Chapter 52 “Have a Positive Talk”

Arun Gogna stated that, we talk to ourselves more than we talk to other people. In an average of 16 hours that we are awake, we talk to ourselves almost 15 hours. According to best selling author Brian Tracy, 95 per cent of our emotions are determined by the way we talk to ourselves. What we say to ourselves has a tremendous impact in our lives!

What do I tell to myself most of the time?

Being attached to different kinds of persons, I discovered the power of talk. I have won friends not just because of my ability to communicate well, but because of what I tell to myself positively. I want to gain friend, and I want to, so I need to be positive.

But, I don’t know why, there are times, I talked negative things to myself as well. For instance, I used to asked myself, why does this person seems changed? Before, whenever we talked it as if we really missed each other that much and whenever I send message, in a bit there is a reply. But now, I don’t know if this person don’t trust me anymore. Might as well, this person don’t want to communicate with me. But, to make it balanced, I just tell to myself, this person is just busy. Time will come, “I do hope”, everything will return into place.

Those times that when we chat, it as if we are missing the words of each other because we, again, will talk the way it was before.

I need to be positive, because it keeps me in a good path, positive outlook and being positive person. "I won't give up for as long as you are there, my friend."

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