May
31, 2013
Today,
we were tasked to attend the (GAD) Gender
and Sensitivity Seminar , held at Ultimart Cinema, San Pablo City. There were
two districts joined together to
participate in this seminar, San Francisco District, where I belong and
Fule-Almeda District.
The
night before the seminar, I prepared schools who will be grouped in every
cottages to be used after the seminar, because the district, only San Francisco,
decided to have team building after the said seminar at the resort near the
city. I was tasked to group the eleven schools that will fit for six cottages. It
was late that night when I finished the groupings. Before I went to bed, I
texted the eleven school heads for them to inform what cottage number they
belong and who will they be then after the seminar.
I
was not able to check replied that night because I was so sleepy. Only early
morning when I checked my cellphone; there were many messages. Thus, one
message struck my attention so much and it stated like this: “WAG mong isasama
ang ___________ (I’d rather not to mention the school) sa ______________.” Then
another message has been sent by the same individual stating “INUULIT ko WAG
mong isasama ang ________________ sa
kanila, sa iba na.” I really don’t know why was she texted me that way that
night. So, I paused for a while and thought, “Oh I see.” I knew the reason.
Then
I went straight to the cinema, where the venue of the seminar is to be held.
Luckily, I saw the person who texted me. I arrived a bit early in the venue so
I had a chance to talked to her. I told her, “Mam, good morning po. Since, iyong
school na ito po ( I mentioned her certain school) ay dalawa ang naka-assigned
na cottage, dun ko na lang po kayo isasama.” Then, she replied, something like “Duon
mo kami isama sa ____________________ (she mentioned specific school where one
of her sister is teaching),” she stated firmly. I told her “Mam, mahirap po
hiwa-hiwalyin kayo sa cottage gawa po ng food.” She said, “Hindi,magkasabay
kaming uuwi ng kapatid ko.” “Mam, eh di pagkatapos na lang po dun na lang po
kayo magkita sa labas,” I suggest. But,
she got mad at me because her request was not granted.I asked her”Mam, ilan po
ba kayo?”, she did not answer me. I asked another question and another and suggested
something still she didn’t look at me and she never entertained my query. Then,
beside her was another administrator, she professionally answered and
entertained me when she saw, the person I was talking to did not mind me anymore.
So I decided to go and went straight to one of her faculty members to
re-grouped the cottage for every school just to satisfy her wants.
My
point there was that, be professional. Be sensitive enough, let us grow. What
happened yesterday let it be. Past is past. You are the only one who don’t like
that certain school, why was it that you wanted your subordinate to include
in your personal grudge in other people. If you are mad at them, so be it. You
are an administrator, we are all professionals. Whatever personal grudge you
had against them, it is your own. Do not include others.
As
human being, let us practice what has been stated by our GAD speaker, about
human rights, that for every right there is an obligation, and it is not
absolute. As professional, we should learn how to deviate our personal feelings
from being professional.
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